You are worrying about making a 13-hour connection. You hava a backup flight later in the day that gives a 7+ hour connection.

For reference next time, once I enter the airport of departure, I keep flying until I've reached my home airport. Hanging around for many hours in transit lounges may, for worrywarts, be less stressful than entering another country for a brief hotel stay, then going through all the security hassles of checking in again to continue the trip.
When the connection is tight rather than long, it is again an advantage to be standing beside the airline staff when bad news arrives. Then they have to find the hotel room etc. for a delaly.
In my somewhat weary experience, picking a more expensive itinerary with better connections will be cheaper on the aggrevation scale, and maybe even financially depending on what other expenses you incur during a long wait. Plus your luggage will have a better chance of arriving home when you do.

Good news!
Problem is solved as I was able to fix the goof!!! and change the return flight home

So we no longer have a 13 hour layover and will be able to arrive at the airport normally after our late checkout at our hotel