Vegas or Miami style clubs in the Caribbean? Good luck. You may have to re-think some of your wants...as what you have described really doesn't exist.

Plenty of places that are safe, easy to travel, good food, with gorgeous beaches....but I'm not so sure your nightlife request is going to be reality.

You may also want to provide a budget per person so people can have a reasonable shot at making suggestions.

Your list is very mixed up. I'm not sure there is any one place that will tick all those boxes.

I was coming to suggest Negril Jamaica for it's incredible "7-mile" beach. But it's way more rustic than you are seeking. The nightlife is more beach parties, live music, not fancy clubs.

Agree with the comments. However I think you would all like St Marten for the beaches. Can't answer for the night life but driving around will be easy there.

Look at Puerto Rico. It will have night life in Old San Juan. Driving around the island is easy and there is a lot to explore. You could stay some of your time in Old San Juan and some of your time on one of the pretty beaches. Do research to find the right beach that will blow you away. You will not find beaches in Old San Juan.

I was actually going to suggest Puerto Rico & Old San Juan, but they wanted those turquoise beaches, and not so sure you'll find what you are looking for in PR. Like I said before, take out the "miami-like clubs" from your wish-list, and your wants are easy....

Actually I think the Dutch side of St. Martin might work. There are a few clubs there, i.e., Tantra and Bliss. Stay in the Maho area for the nightlife and drive to the beaches during the day. I love Orient Beach on the French side. Unfortunately, it's a bit of a drive from Maho and there's often traffic. But there are also a couple of nice beaches on the Dutch side.

Another possibility is Aruba.

What Sharona said ... I think you would really enjoy St.Maarten, Mullet Beach near Maho is gorgeous, lots to do on the island.

Interesting ..but tell me r u comimg alone or with some body.You can visit lots of places here.Abaco Island,Barbados, Montago way etc.All of above there are lots of beaches to enjoy.But come with your full pocket.

You are not going to find many AI resorts in St. Martin. I'm not that familar with St. Martin as it never hit our 'to-go' list.

I would look at Aruba. Tons of dining and bar options to fit your requirements. The Palm Beach area is lined with hotels, beach bars, dining options, shopping and entertainment. Easily walkable. There are casinos there also, so over all it kinda gives that Vegas vibe.I wouldn't suggest AI there.

Puerto Rico would also fit you nightlife requirements. No real AI's there. We are looking at PR for our Caribbean trip this year.

You might look at Barbados also. Seems there is some good nightlife in the St. Lawrence Gap area.

There is good nightlife in St Lawrence Gap area. It's where Brits in their 20s go. There are pretty beaches and it's easy to get around & things to see & hotels to suit all budgets. If you are not staying in St Lawrence, AI is probably better since restaurants can be expensive and/or there is some distance between them.

Aruba is also a great fun island, great beaches & lots of things to do/restaurants/bars etc but the landscape is not as pretty as Barbados.

St Martin, again another good suggestion, definitely no need for AI.

Been to PR twice and it's the only island I would not return to but I can imagine there would be good nightlife there.

Antigua's nightlife is centered around Shirley Heights, Falmouth Harbour, especially during Antigua Race Week (18-23 April). Antigua also has pretty beaches, easy to get around, things to see (Nelsons Dockyard is impressive) & lots of AI options. But none of these options are anywhere near the standard of those in Vegas.

Sorry if I sounded super picky on that "wishlist" -- I really appreciate all your tips and suggestions

We decided on Sonesta Maho Beach Resort on St. Martin-- AI, close to the casino / clubs and we plan to rent a car so we can visit the French side and we plan to visit the beaches some of you guys suggested.

Will let you guys know how it the trip turns out! Such an awesome community here

Good choice. Check out Waikiki Beach and Coco Beach on St Martin. Nice water for swimming / playing in the waves. Beautiful cove with restaurant / beach service.

I think you'll be happy with your decision. Here's some great info on SXM from BellaClaire that you might find helpful:

http://www.fodors.com/community/caribbean-islands/need-advise-for-st-maarten-in-october-2012.cfm

Here's a list of the beaches on a map. You can click on a beach to see pictures and find out info on that particular beach:

http://sint-maarten.net/St-Maarten-Beaches/stmaarten_Beaches.html

Have a wonderful time!